You are only one decision away from a completely different life, your ideal life, a life brimming with success and happiness. How to achieve this? How to shape your destiny? How do passion and obsession affect your destiny? Why do successful men, despite all the setbacks succeeded? How to overcome drawbacks and setbacks in life?
'It's in the moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.' - Tony Robbins
By not taking action or making decisions, you passively allow life or circumstances to shape you, which can lead to gradual devastation. At times, this process may occur swiftly. In every moment of life, you have a choice: to actively shape your life and let it unfold for you, or to remain passive and allow life to take its own course, potentially leading to ruin.
You are 'One decision away' from an altogether life. Your life of dreams, freedom & happiness. Within you, all the solutions to your challenges exist. If you find it difficult to pay your bills, you understand that you must enhance your income streams, minimize liabilities, and cut down on fixed expenses. It's quite straightforward and instinctive!
Despite this, one may fail to seize the moment, allowing devastation to unfold in their life. It's common to cast blame on everyone and everything, including society, family, and government, for one's misfortunes.
Regardless of how much you blame others or yourself, and irrespective of the time spent lamenting the past or fretting about the future, it will not alter anything. Action can transform life! It is action that distinguishes between knowing and doing.
Take extreme ownership of life, that's the key to success! Successful individuals take ownership of their lives and actions, recognizing that they are ultimately responsible for the results. They are committed to continuous self-improvement by learning and seeking feedback on their work.
Tony Robbins further says;
'Different actions produces different results.' - Tony Robbins
Making a change in your life is straightforward: you need to take actions different from your usual routine. While the concept is simple, the execution is not easy. However, committing to this change can lead to significant personal transformation.
Albert Einstein said-
'Insanity is doing same things again & again, expecting the different results.'
Observing the world, we notice achievers and winners. One trait they all share is decisiveness. It's that resolution and dedication to change your life, that commitment to self-improvement, that truly drives transformation.
Our life gets transformed by what we do consistently, not by what we do rarely. The deep hunger to achieve goals automatically brings in consistency. More than all this, it's an obsession, it's hard work. Nothing can replace grinding.
Often, parents say you can do anything you set your mind to. However, it's not that simple. True achievement lies in pursuing what you're deeply passionate about, even to the point of obsession. It's this interplay of passion and obsession, constantly occupying your thoughts, that has the power to forge legends.
Once again, you must be prepared to work tirelessly, possibly giving your all—sweat, blood, and tears included. We witness individuals who have sacrificed nearly everything to realize their dreams. If you're not willing to make such sacrifices, then it may be best to reconsider your goals.
'There's a lot of difference between obsession & passion.' - Brendon Burchard
While passion may be a component of obsession, it does not mean they are identical. Passion and obsession represent two sides of the coin of success. With an obsession alone, one is constantly stressed, devoid of enjoyment. On the other hand, passion alone, lacking discipline and obsession will not suffice.
Individuals who claim to be passionate about something can indeed live without it. However, if you are obsessed with something, you cannot go a single day without engaging in it, as you strive to perfect your skills. Satisfaction comes from small achievements; but you are not fully satisfied, you set your sights high, and ultimately, you become a legend.
'Obsession is the Pinnacle of Passion. You need to be obsessed with the process, not with the end result.'
Being fixated on the outcome can lead to stress and increase frustration. If the process isn't enjoyable, it's difficult to sustain effort over time. Stress and frustration build up, and ultimately, you might surrender.
'Your time is limited, so don't waste it on someone else's. Have the courage to follow your intuition & heart, they somehow already know what you truly want to become?' - Steve Jobs
Steve warns us that our time is finite. Only yesterday, you were a child, but today, you stand as an adult laden with responsibilities. It's crucial to select our passion—our profession—carefully. Since you spend the majority of your time at work, it's crucial to ensure that you love what you do and choose a job that you're passionate about.
'The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet. Keep looking! Don't settle! - Steve Jobs
'We become old quickly, but we become wise very lately.' - Franklin Delano Roosevelt
We age quickly, but wisdom comes late. Why is that? In school, lessons are taught before exams are given. However, in the school of life, we face the tests first and learn the lessons afterward.
Those deemed wise have often failed and persevered. The distinction lies between Intelligence and Wisdom.
Wisdom is learning through your own mistakes; Intelligence is learning from others.
To be successful one needs to be both Intelligent & Wise. The key to success is trying, learning from your as well as others' mistakes.
"Ever tried, ever failed, no matter try again, fail again, fail better. The World is yours. Treat everyone kindly. Light up the night 🔥🔥🔥 - David Beckam
Ultimate success formula as per Tony Robbins (as given in the book Awaken the Giant Within You) -
1. Decide what you want & go after it with everything you got.
2. Take action
3. Notice what's working or not.
4. Change your approach until you achieve what you want.
As per Tony Robbins, 3 decisions that shapes your destiny -
1. Your decision about what to focus on.
2. Your decision about what things mean to you.
3. Your decisions about what to do to create the results you desire.
'A man is a product of his thoughts.' - Buddha
To achieve success, it's essential to think big, as grand thoughts can lead to grand achievements. However, remember that thinking big is merely the beginning.
Remember -
'Ideation without execution is delusion.'
You can make better decisions by changing these components of life as given by Tony Robbins;
1. Your core beliefs & unconscious rules.
2. Your life values.
3. Your references.
4. The habitual questions that you ask yourself.
5. The emotional states you experience in each moment.
Finally!
This changes your destiny & ultimately brings in a paradigm shift to your life.
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